3 Sneaky Subconscious Saboteurs of Your Manifestations

“What’s Love Got to Do With It?” Part 1: 3 Sneaky Subconscious Saboteurs of Your Manifestations (& Your Magnetism)

This is a two part series that I’m releasing this week and next week in the ramp up to my free upcoming live class on December 1 which is your intro to the Soul’d Approach. You can find a link to this below, but it’s all about understanding this concept of The New Human and how it relates to the Soul’d methods. 

Now, if you’ve been following along or know me at all, then you know there’s one thing I love talking about more than anything – and that is your essence. 

I am all about marketing and manifesting aka building businesses and dream lives with nothing but the essence that is you. And the neat thing about this approach is that you don’t have to be more or do more of anything. This is already within you. Your essence is not something that can be taken away from you. It’s not even something that can be validated for you. It’s just you. It’s your truth. It’s who you are at your core. It’s your most authentic expression of energy. And because of that, it’s your highest frequency. It’s your energetic signature. It’s your universal signal.

Gone are the days when we had to fake it to make it. And do all of the manifestation tactics and trends that just left us feeling drained and depleted and utterly confused as to why we weren’t able to manifest what we desire. Do you want to know why it’s not working? It’s because you can’t fake a frequency. You can’t see an outer transformation until an inner transformation occurs. The version of life you’re dreaming about can’t happen until the dream version of you steps up. This means it won’t arrive until you do. 

Today I’m getting to the heart of it. I’m letting you in on a critical part of the inner transformation that must occur. I gave a hint when I said I’m getting to the heart of it. And trust me, it’s not even on your radar. But once you dive into this with me right now, you’ll finally understand why this is important and you’ll want to stop sabotaging your magnetism. Because that’s what you’re doing. That’s why manifesting in the current way you are trying to do it is not working. 

Now, what’s at the heart of marketing and manifesting with nothing but the essence that is you? 

Love. 

That’s the heart of it. It’s the foundation of The Manifesting Methods. Let me give you a few quick reasons why. 

As I said earlier, your essence is your highest frequency because it’s essentially your most authentic self. It’s your higher self. It’s heaven on earth. It’s your greatest expression of energy because it’s your truest expression of energy. 

Energy is a frequency. And, the higher the frequency, the more enjoyable the energy. 

Quantum physics tells us that before matter, there is energy. The frequency of energy determines what type of matter we experience.

If love is the highest frequency of energy, that is the frequency you want to embody. This is so that you can experience the level of matter that comes from that level of frequency.

Now, knowing that frequency is the thing we want to tap into, let’s look at all of the manifestation trends and tactics available to us today.

I have heard of wealth embodiment, or identity work. In order to embody a “wealth identity,” we have to think pretty highly of ourselves, which requires a greater capacity for self-love.

I have heard of nervous system work. In order to be capable of maintaining a calm nervous system with and without money, we have to be able to connect to ourselves on a fairly deep and secure level, which requires a greater capacity for self-love.

I have heard of receivership work. In order to allow ourselves to receive, we have to already know that we are deserving and worthy. We have to rewire the way we think about earning, which requires a greater capacity for self-love.

I have heard of subconscious reprogramming. In order to tap into our subconscious and re-evaluate our patterns and programs, we need to trust ourselves and be able to dig deep within, which requires a greater capacity for self-love.

In other words, these pathways for building wealth are all related; we are just labeling it different things. It all comes down to our capacity for loving ourselves, our work and our lives – with the way we love leading the way.

But is anybody actually talking about love? Is anybody actually asking you to shed more of your ego so that more of your essence shines? Not really, at least I haven’t seen such things. 

Here’s what The Manifesting Methods does: It asks you to look at how you love, the way you move with love, the way you lead with love. It does through The D.E.B.I.T. Method, The C.R.E.D.I.T. Method and The R.O.S.E. Method, but it also does it through a series of Belief Shifting Objectives and 5 main practical applications that you must consider regarding love. I’m going to share 3 of them with you today. 

And that’s because the foundation of your essence is unconditional love. That’s why the frequency is so high. It understands a healthy and free form of love. It knows it because that’s just what it is. Your essence, your higher self, doesn’t care about a lot of things that your ego cares about. In fact, it wants you to shed all of that so that your essence can start taking the lead. 

Our ego knows survival. Our ego understands an ego-based, and more often than not, a toxic  kind of love that has been warped by codependency, trauma bonding, narcissism, abuse and more. We’ve all developed certain ways of looking at love that aren’t rooted in truth at all. 

Here are 3 of the five practical applications that we look at when it comes to the way we love and lead from love. These are called practical applications because The Manifesting Methods will require you to not only embrace them but also embody them in your every day lived experience. 

Number 1: Life Force Energy

This is where we are looking at your energy. One of the foundational principles of the methods is that money problems are energy problems. How are you spending your energy? How are you protecting it? How are you investing in it? Are you constantly spent? Or are you more regulated and in equal balance with the way you receive energy and release it? Your life force energy is a key indicator of how you manage your energy, and in order to manage it more wisely and most effectively, you need to let love guide you here. 

Number 2: Love Attachment Style

For many of us, we fall within the spectrum of anxious and avoidant attachment styles. Are you aware of yours? The goal of course is to move towards a more secure attachment style. When you commit to seeing this within yourself, you will be shown the way you move with love. Having awareness of your patterns alone is what can break their cycles. 

Number 3: Love & Divine Sacred Union Within

We often hear about divine union with a romantic counterpart, but in order for this to legitimately happen, we must be in sacred union between the feminine and masculine within us. Regardless of our gender, there is a unique balance of feminine and masculine energies within us. Are they in harmony? Does the masculine within you have the capacity to create the structure and hold the vision? Does the feminine within you trust the vision and let it unfold through divine inspiration and guidance? Where is there disharmony within you? Where are you leaning too far to one side? 

These are just three of the five practical applications that are introduced within The Manifesting Methods. And they all have to do with the way you move with love, how you look at love, how you lead with love – not the codependent toxic kind – the kind that is free. Your essence is free. And when you let yourself live freely within your frequency, your manifestations will just land. 

Next week, I will introduce part 2 of this series called: “What’s Love Got to Do With It?” Part 2: What the Universe Really Wants From You so that You Can Finally Become Divinely Resourced… (And finally call in the life you actually want to have. No more sabotaging!!)

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